The Self Loving Salon

The Self Loving Salon is a workshop where you get to explore how to exquisitely love on yourself and self-pleasure like you are your own best lover. You are your own primary partner, and knowing how to make love to yourself is one of the most empowering skills you can learn as a woman/vulva haver.

Hosted by Certified Sex Coach, Lucy Rowett, you'll learn the best in real life, practical techniques from sexology, neo-tantra, and somatics, to be able to fully love-on yourself.

Whether you’re single, dating, married, hooking up, “it’s complicated”, divorced, widowed or polyam. It doesn’t matter because this workshop is all about you.

Because how can your lover really know what you like if you don’t know yourself in the first place?

Whether you want to be able to O more regularly, have more satisfying O's, to be able to finally show your lover what you like because you finally know, or to explore your full pleasure potential outside of a quick buzz before you sleep.

In this workshop, we will be learning and exploring everything self pleasuring and O's WITH a pleasure practise at the end.

This will be a live workshop split into two halves:

• The first half is live instruction, teaching, and Q&A.

• The second half we will be exploring our own self pleasure practise. This may involve n*dity and you can go as far as you want to go.

This will be with cameras and microphones off for privacy and this workshop will absolutely not be recorded.

It’s for you if:

• You want to form an even deeper relationship with yourself, your body, and your own pleasure

• You’re fed up of faking it and only pleasing your partner, you want pleasure and O’s for yourself

• You want to feel more whole as a sexual being

• You want to celebrate YOURSELF

• You want to learn how to have an even better w*nk because you know there is so much more you can do

• You’re ready to claim your erotic power

This workshop is for women and Vulva Havers only. If you are a Trans Man or Masc, you are absolutely welcome, just know that the space will be more towards the femme spectrum. If this feels good for you, you are welcome!

This isn’t open to Transwomen as we will only be focusing on vulvas.

The second half of this salon will include the option for you to practise self-pleasuring. Your camera and microphone will be off during this point to allow for privacy.

Everything is a choice and you get to choose how much you do and how much you take part.

At the beginning I will insist everybody agrees to full confidentiality.

When:

Friday, February 28th, 7:00-9:00pm GMT/8:00-10pm CET/2:00-4:00pm EST/11:00am-12:00pm PST

Rough schedule for the workshop:

• Check in, housekeeping, confidentiality

• A meditation/landing practise

• Body shaking

• Teaching from Lucy

• Pleasure practises

• 5 minute break

• Solo self pleasure practise (cameras and microphones OFF!)

What you need to bring:

• Yourself. Wear something comfy or whatever feels sensual to you.

• A drink and a snack if needed

• A journal

For the self-pleasuring practise:

• Privacy! Ideally your bedroom or anywhere where you will absolutely not be disturbed.

• Blankets, cushions, and anything else that makes you feel cosy.

• Your favourite toy/s and lube

• Ear buds if you are worried people might hear you

Turn your phone off or on silent, tell your partner to not disturb you for the time, tell your kids that mummy will be busy, arrange for somebody else to put them to bed. If your pet wanders in it's entirely your choice how you respond.

Cost: 35€/£29/$36 USD

Maximum participants: 15

Payment is via Stripe, you pay with your usual credit card in your own currency. I don’t receive your card details.

Once you’ve registered, a confirmation email will be sent out with the Zoom link.